User blog comment:The Oblivious Prattler/I'll Never Understand This.../@comment-28310326-20160428102819/@comment-26569404-20160428143023

Here's a summary of my reply in case I have to delete the others:

1) Thanks to Nex's bad first impression, the fanbase focuses too much on his flaws and blows them out of proportion. But according to Rainbow, Nex is a friendly guy (they specifically call him "friendly"). He gets along well with the Winx and the other guys, not just Aisha. Grouchy and mean? Other characters are like that sometimes, too -- even sweethearts like Flora -- but those traits don't define who Nex is.

2) Aisha has NOT forgotten Nabu! He's just not important to the story anymore, so Rainbow doesn't need her to bring him up. But he'll always be a part of her past and who she is now. It's unrealistic to expect her to talk about him constantly. No one in real life talks about people from their past all the time.

3) Why does Aisha have to date someone from her realm? The other Winx aren't dating guys from their realms, either! Also, it doesn't matter if we don't know where Nex is from. We don't know where some of the other guys are from, either! Helia might be from Lynphea, and Brandon might be from Eraklyon, but Rainbow hasn't confirmed it. Timmy's not from Zenith, but that's all we know. And now, we may never know where Riven was from.

4) Roy didn't have any personality, let alone a better one. Rainbow literally didn't give him a personality except "generic nice guy," because that's all he need to play his brief role in the show. His "personality" tended to change with the circumstances. For example, one episode he was humble, and the next, he was vain. That's because he was just a plot device, and the writers changed his character to suit the story's needs.

5) Aisha and Nex fell in love with each other (yes, Nex loves her too) because they have similar personalities, interests, and ways of thinking. (It was the same with her and Nabu -- and the other couples, too). She related to him more than she related to Roy. That's all. It has nothing to do with Nex being "sportier" than him. Also, Aisha owed Roy nothing. She had no obligation to become his girlfriend, so fairness has nothing to do with this.

6) Finally, Aisha shouldn't have to choose one guy or singleness. There are lots of other guys in the Magic Dimension. She has the right to date whoever she wants to. Also, she's afraid of being alone. If she stays single, she'll be alone for the rest of her life. Why would she want that for herself? Singleness is fine, but it wouldn't fit her character.